Thursday, February 20, 2014

Developing Relationships of Trust with the Youth in our Community


As a new student at school, Lily was enrolled in Catholic Charities’ Neighborhood Youth Outreach (N.Y.O.) program located at St. Joan of Arc Church/school in Indianapolis to help her adjust to her new situation. She had recently been removed from parental care and placed in the care of an estranged aunt. The situation was traumatic and Lily's attitude clearly reflected the turmoil she had experienced. It was a struggle adjusting to the academic and social demands of her new environment – a new school, a new city, and social interactions with an unfamiliar student population that didn’t mirror her former life experience.
In the beginning, Lily did not like attending the N.Y.O. after-school program and she expressed her dislike in several ways – leaving the facility without the authorization of staff or her guardian, refusing to bring her homework so it could be completed, outbursts of anger, and many moments of being disrespectful. As the N.Y.O. staff worked with Lily and her aunt to help with the adjustment of a new environment, improvements began to take root. The N.Y.O. staff provided help, listened to Lily’s concerns and worries, and she began to feel hope. She knew she was not alone. 
Lily began to respond positively to her teachers, her outbursts were fewer, and her detentions far less frequent. She began completing her homework and class work; and of vital importance, she developed friendships; all while her interaction with the N.Y.O. staff beautifully flourished.
Lily has developed a relationship of trust with our N.Y.O. staff. She communicates her good school days and her bad school days – and while she works very hard not to have bad days, it is always communicated to her that everyone has their ups and downs. Lily has recently emailed her grades to the staff to show her effort and commitment. We are so proud of her growth and determination, and Lily has learned to take pride in a job well done and making wise choices.
For more information about the N.Y.O. program, please contact us at 317-283-6710.

Friday, February 14, 2014

Why Do We Celebrate Valentine’s Day?


Flowers, candy, red hearts, and romance – that’s what Valentine's Day is all about, right?
Few know the true origin of this holiday. The real story of Valentine’s Day is found in the man behind the holiday – St. Valentine. And the expression of love really isn't romantic at all – at least not in the traditional sense.

Valentine was a Roman Priest at the time of Emperor Claudias the second. Claudias detested Christians and took advantage of every opportunity to persecute the Church through his high-ranking position. As a result, he issued an edict that prohibited people from getting married, based on the belief that unmarried soldiers would fight better than married soldiers, because married soldiers might be afraid of what might happen to their wives if they died.


This edict, however, posed an immediate problem to the Christian Church. Christian marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman for life and is a right given by God. Roman Priest Valentine had a deep passion to see couples bonded in this sacred union and love, as a reflection of the union we have with Christ. So Valentine, in spite of the edict, continued to perform marriage ceremonies.

Valentine was eventually caught, imprisoned, and tortured for performing marriage ceremonies against the command of Emperor Claudius. But this imprisonment did not change Valentine’s zest to share the love of Christ with everyone he met.

While imprisoned, Valentine met a Roman judge named Asterius whose daughter was blind. Valentine shared the love of Christ with Asterius through prayer and the healing of his young girl. Asterius was so overcome with the power of love that he committed his life to Christ.

In the year 269 AD, Valentine was sentenced to a three-part execution of a beating, stoning, and finally decapitation – all because of his stand for Christian marriage. It is believed the last words he wrote were in a letter to Asterius' daughter, inspiring today's romantic notes by signing it, "from your Valentine.”

That is the real story of Valentine’s Day. It is not simply a holiday, but a celebration of Christ’s love for us. Won’t you follow the lead of St. Valentine by celebrating this day, sharing the unconditional love of Christ with everyone you meet – no matter the cost?